Tuesday, September 24, 2019
Love, Love
Saturday, September 7, 2019
Divorce
I hate it!
I went through a terrible divorce i 1997 that involved mental and physical abuse. During those years of recovery from divorce it was a nightmare. I would do all sorts of things to stay busy and take care of my twins.
Now, in 2019 I never imagined I would go through this again with my son, and his four kids. It's like living it again, but in a different place.
My son left his wife on August 9th. One of the worst days I've had in a long time. Each have their faults, but it has been so rough. I don't ask for prayer much, but this I am asking for intercessors to intercede.
My four grandchildren were told you have to go now by mom! Never prepared them for what was coming at all. The other grandparents girlfriend came to pick them up. The boys who are eight and five had a fit. The youngest the mom tried to push him in the back of the suv car and he wasn't having it. They tried at least five minutes to get him in and he would not budge. I ended up taking them over to the other house and they were still crying when I left. It breaks my heart. I had to go through this with my ex-husband many, many years ago. It was hard then and it is so hard now. I know God will help my family get through this.
The kids stay over at our house and great granparents all the time. It's rough and that's all I'm saying for now.
I wish I could help her through this, but I can't. It's like she's put up a wall and won't let people in anymore.
Things are settling down some. She has the boys in counseling to help with the divorce. They are adjusting as well as expected.
I went through a terrible divorce i 1997 that involved mental and physical abuse. During those years of recovery from divorce it was a nightmare. I would do all sorts of things to stay busy and take care of my twins.
Now, in 2019 I never imagined I would go through this again with my son, and his four kids. It's like living it again, but in a different place.
My son left his wife on August 9th. One of the worst days I've had in a long time. Each have their faults, but it has been so rough. I don't ask for prayer much, but this I am asking for intercessors to intercede.
My four grandchildren were told you have to go now by mom! Never prepared them for what was coming at all. The other grandparents girlfriend came to pick them up. The boys who are eight and five had a fit. The youngest the mom tried to push him in the back of the suv car and he wasn't having it. They tried at least five minutes to get him in and he would not budge. I ended up taking them over to the other house and they were still crying when I left. It breaks my heart. I had to go through this with my ex-husband many, many years ago. It was hard then and it is so hard now. I know God will help my family get through this.
The kids stay over at our house and great granparents all the time. It's rough and that's all I'm saying for now.
I wish I could help her through this, but I can't. It's like she's put up a wall and won't let people in anymore.
Things are settling down some. She has the boys in counseling to help with the divorce. They are adjusting as well as expected.
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